Adoption, DNA, Genetic Genealogy

Forced Adoption

Couple Holding Hands of Child

Forced Adoption in Australia: Unraveling the Past with DNA

Forced adoption in Australia, a practice that reached its peak during the mid-20th century, left countless families torn apart and countless individuals searching for their roots. As a genetic genealogist, I have witnessed firsthand the profound impact DNA testing can have in reuniting families and providing answers to those affected by this tragic part of our history.

The History of Forced Adoption in Australia

Between the 1950s and 1980s, it is estimated that around 150,000 babies were forcibly taken from their mothers and placed for adoption in Australia. Often, these adoptions occurred without the consent of the birth mothers, many of whom were young, unmarried, and under significant pressure from social services, medical professionals, and even their own families. The practices surrounding these adoptions were often unethical and left deep emotional scars on all parties involved.

The Emotional Toll

The forced adoption practices have had long-lasting effects on both the adoptees and the birth parents. Many adoptees have grown up with a sense of loss and identity confusion, while birth mothers have often experienced lifelong grief and guilt. The secrecy and shame associated with these adoptions have made it challenging for many to seek out their biological families or even acknowledge their feelings.

How DNA Testing Can Help

In recent years, advancements in DNA testing have provided a powerful tool for those affected by forced adoption. Through genetic genealogy, it is now possible to uncover familial connections that were once thought lost forever. Here’s how I can assist individuals affected by forced adoption:

  1. DNA Testing and Analysis: By taking a simple DNA test, individuals can discover genetic matches with relatives they never knew they had. These matches can range from close family members to distant cousins, providing valuable clues in the search for biological family.

  2. Building Family Trees: Using the information from DNA tests, I help clients construct detailed family trees. This process involves piecing together data from genetic matches, historical records, and personal stories to create a comprehensive picture of their ancestry.

  3. Providing Emotional Support: The journey of uncovering one’s biological roots can be overwhelming. I offer support and referrals throughout the process, helping clients navigate the complex emotions that often arise.

Real Stories of Reconnection

While each case is unique, the joy of reuniting families is a common theme. One client, Sarah*, discovered her biological mother through a DNA match. The reunion allowed them to fill the void left by decades of separation, and today, they are building a meaningful relationship. Another client, Michael*, found siblings he never knew he had, providing him with a sense of family and identity he had longed for.

Conclusion

Forced adoption is a painful chapter in Australia’s history, but through the power of DNA testing and genetic genealogy, healing and reconnection are possible. At The DNA Connection, I am dedicated to helping those affected by forced adoption find their biological families and understand their heritage. If you or someone you know is seeking answers, I invite you to reach out and begin this transformative journey.

*Names have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals.

Adoption, Great stories

Soul Chat 2/30

Are you adopted or missing a family member?

I see you and I have heard the challenges that you have faced across your life.

Its painful and challenging to live with not knowing and always wondering why or what if….

I know in my heart that my purpose is to bring connections from the past to the present, that might be in a number of different ways and for a multitude of different reasons.

I believe we all have the right to connect to our ancestors and find the answers that we seek.

So this is where I bear my soul a little…..  For the past few years I have been working on developing The DNA Connection but felt held back by my professional career as a nurse. 

Its only in the last few months that I have reflected that all the skills I have learnt while being a nurse holds me in great stead for the work that happens within The DNA Connection.

I look forward to sharing my soul and learning about the souls of my clients from both the past and the future. 

#soulchat #contentology #day2 

Adoption, DNA, Great stories

My First DNA adoption case

My First DNA adoption case

Search for Birth Father

I met unnamed female in November 2016. A fellow genealogist suggested this might be a good case for me to get started with.

She knew her birth mother but was desperately seeking connection to her birth father

Initially her ancestry test revealed 68 4th cousin matches or closer and slowly over time this number grew. We would excitedly email each other when new closer matches arrived. Each new match was matched to other matches and if we could we added the person to our online speculative tree and we worked out how the new match fit into the family.

Initially progress was slow and there was weeks with no new matches until we had a match appear that was in the 2nd Cousin range – Who was this mystery match? We had great excitement that there was no shared matches to her mothers side of the tree. For weeks we internet searched and stalked profiles on Facebook to piece together whom this match may be. We were able to start a speculative family tree for this match and slowly work backwards to see if there were links to the maternal lines – but nothing. We sent emails and messages and spoke to living family members trying to piece the puzzle together. There were many twists and turns and paths leading to dead ends, but we persisted.

We initally headed down the maternal side of the new matches tree but we couldnt get this information to gel with the trees of the other shared matches. So we moved onto the Paternal side. We built lots of lots of trees and finally found links back to similar towns in NSW. Was this what we were looking for???

Some matches clicked in, and others didn’t, we found some more matches that didn’t know their past family either, this added to the mystery and drove us on! (Still working on one of these mysteries – it involves an adoption following a shipwreck of the Cairns Coast, but that’s another story)

Now we are sitting at 292 4th cousins or closer according to Ancestry DNA, and we are close to finding her birth father, but again we are at a Brick Wall of a deceased brother whom we know nothing about, and the relatives seem to know nothing either. Its two steps forward and five steps back but each week we hope for new DNA matches to add to the story.

If you want to read her side of the story – I’m proud to share her blog with you – The Rollercoaster Ride Called Adoption : From the eyes of an adoptee

I hope that I am able to update this blog post in the future with more news.