Adoption, DNA, Genetic Genealogy

Forced Adoption

Couple Holding Hands of Child

Forced Adoption in Australia: Unraveling the Past with DNA

Forced adoption in Australia, a practice that reached its peak during the mid-20th century, left countless families torn apart and countless individuals searching for their roots. As a genetic genealogist, I have witnessed firsthand the profound impact DNA testing can have in reuniting families and providing answers to those affected by this tragic part of our history.

The History of Forced Adoption in Australia

Between the 1950s and 1980s, it is estimated that around 150,000 babies were forcibly taken from their mothers and placed for adoption in Australia. Often, these adoptions occurred without the consent of the birth mothers, many of whom were young, unmarried, and under significant pressure from social services, medical professionals, and even their own families. The practices surrounding these adoptions were often unethical and left deep emotional scars on all parties involved.

The Emotional Toll

The forced adoption practices have had long-lasting effects on both the adoptees and the birth parents. Many adoptees have grown up with a sense of loss and identity confusion, while birth mothers have often experienced lifelong grief and guilt. The secrecy and shame associated with these adoptions have made it challenging for many to seek out their biological families or even acknowledge their feelings.

How DNA Testing Can Help

In recent years, advancements in DNA testing have provided a powerful tool for those affected by forced adoption. Through genetic genealogy, it is now possible to uncover familial connections that were once thought lost forever. Here’s how I can assist individuals affected by forced adoption:

  1. DNA Testing and Analysis: By taking a simple DNA test, individuals can discover genetic matches with relatives they never knew they had. These matches can range from close family members to distant cousins, providing valuable clues in the search for biological family.

  2. Building Family Trees: Using the information from DNA tests, I help clients construct detailed family trees. This process involves piecing together data from genetic matches, historical records, and personal stories to create a comprehensive picture of their ancestry.

  3. Providing Emotional Support: The journey of uncovering one’s biological roots can be overwhelming. I offer support and referrals throughout the process, helping clients navigate the complex emotions that often arise.

Real Stories of Reconnection

While each case is unique, the joy of reuniting families is a common theme. One client, Sarah*, discovered her biological mother through a DNA match. The reunion allowed them to fill the void left by decades of separation, and today, they are building a meaningful relationship. Another client, Michael*, found siblings he never knew he had, providing him with a sense of family and identity he had longed for.

Conclusion

Forced adoption is a painful chapter in Australia’s history, but through the power of DNA testing and genetic genealogy, healing and reconnection are possible. At The DNA Connection, I am dedicated to helping those affected by forced adoption find their biological families and understand their heritage. If you or someone you know is seeking answers, I invite you to reach out and begin this transformative journey.

*Names have been changed to protect the privacy of individuals.

DNA, Genetic Genealogy

Beginner tips to start your DNA Journey

Embarking on a journey to uncover your genetic heritage is an exciting and rewarding endeavour. Whether you’re seeking to connect with long-lost relatives or trace your ancestry, genetic genealogy provides powerful tools to help you along the way. Here are some beginner tips to get you started on your DNA journey.

1. Understand the Basics of DNA Testing

Before diving into genetic genealogy, it’s essential to understand the basics of DNA testing. There are three main types of DNA tests used in genealogy:

  • Autosomal DNA (atDNA): This test is the most common and analyses your autosomes, which are the non-sex chromosomes inherited from both parents. It provides information about your overall ancestry and can help you find relatives within the last five to seven generations.
  • Y-DNA: This test examines the Y chromosome, which is passed down from father to son. It’s useful for tracing direct paternal lines and can help you connect with relatives on your father’s side.
  • mtDNA: This test analyses mitochondrial DNA, which is passed down from mother to child. It helps trace direct maternal lines and can connect you with relatives on your mother’s side.

2. Choose the Right DNA Testing Company

Selecting the right DNA testing company is crucial. Some popular options include AncestryDNA, 23andMe, MyHeritage, and FamilyTreeDNA. Each company offers unique features, databases, and tools, so consider what is most important for your research before making a choice. Ancestry is the preferred testing company for The DNA Connection as it has the largest database of matches. 

3. Analyse Your Results

Once you receive your DNA results, take time to explore and understand them. Most companies provide a list of DNA matches, ethnicity estimates, and sometimes even health information. Review your matches, and reach out to those who share significant amounts of DNA with you. Collaboration with these matches can help you piece together your family history.

4. Build Your Family Tree

Creating a family tree is a foundational step in genetic genealogy. Start with what you know—your immediate family—and gradually add information about your ancestors. Use online platforms like Ancestry.com, MyHeritage, or FamilySearch to build and expand your tree.

5. Leverage Online Resources and Communities

The genetic genealogy community is vast and supportive. Join online forums, social media groups, and attend webinars to learn from experienced genealogists. Websites like WikiTree, GEDmatch, and DNA Painter offer valuable tools and resources to aid your research.

Facebook Groups like Using DNA for Genealogy – Australia & NZ are very helpful. 

6. Be Patient and Persistent

Genetic genealogy is a journey that requires patience and persistence. Sometimes, breakthroughs happen quickly, while other times, it may take months or even years to uncover significant information. Stay motivated and continue learning as you go.

DNA, Genetic Genealogy

DNA Testing Basics

DNA Testing Basics

DNA Helix

DNA testing is a powerful tool for uncovering your ancestry and finding relatives.

It offers an incredible journey into your past, revealing the roots and branches of your family tree that you might never have discovered otherwise. 

Currently over 25 Million people have taken a DNA test at Ancestry.com which is the main reason that I recommend their DNA test as the first DNA test which to take. 

How DNA Testing Works 

When you do a DNA test, you send a small sample of your saliva (spit) to a lab. Scientists look at your DNA, which is like a code inside your cells that makes you who you are. They compare your DNA to other people’s DNA to find out where your ancestors came from and if you have any relatives you don’t know about

What You Can Learn

  1. Where Your Family Comes From: Find out which parts of the world your ancestors came from. Ancestry.com shows you a map with the regions your family is connected to.

  2. Find New Relatives: Discover cousins and other family members. Ancestry.com has a huge database, so you might find people you didn’t know were related to you.

  3. Learn About Your Ancestors: Ancestry.com also has lots of old records, like birth certificates and immigration papers. These can tell you more about your ancestors’ lives.

The DNA Connection specifically works on your DNA Match data to work out the relationships to you.

Conclusion

DNA testing is a fun and interesting way to learn about your family history.

The DNA Connection can help you discover where your ancestors came from, find new relatives, and learn about your family’s past. If you’re curious about your heritage, reach out to us and start your journey today!

 

Conferences, DNA

DNA to the Max – Sydney

What a fantastic conference that was!! For the first conference of its type in Australia that was an amazing success. Congratulations to the team at Unlock the Past for creating such a wonderful event. I cant wait for the next one.

Highlights of the last 3 days for me:

* The discussions around informed consent – I know I will be changing my practices, when asking people to take a DNA test

* I have an increased awareness of the need for support, for all who have surprises pop up, when taking a DNA test, and I am more conscious of the ripple effect on families when surprises and secret are discovered

* The exciting changes that are coming for use the DNA testing in the future including the use of DNA to inform about Medical information eg Medications and conditions

* Chromosome Mapping and Visual Phasing – Thanks Blaine Bettinger for allowing the nerd in me, to be excited about this. Linking the ancestoral stories to the chromosomes was a lightbulb moment for me!

* The rise is DNA testing is increasing the awareness of the need for Genealogical societies and showing others the joy of traditional Genealogical research.

I am excited to think that we are going to see many more DNA testers in Australia and that I have potentially have many more cousins to meet. 

My 11th Cousin 1x Removed Blaine Bettinger enjoying an aussie meat pie

I made another Cousin connection – Shelley Crawford from Connected DNA

 https://www.connecteddna.com/ She is my 7th Cousin 3x removed and was my closest match of the weekend. 

Shelley creates these amazing graphs of your shared cousin matches which look amazing!

I have followed her blog for a little while and wonder what segment of DNA we share that might make us think that this stuff is super fun! Would be cool if we could link it back to our common ancestor. 

She is my cousin!!!

I can’t not mention my friend and Mentor Louise Coakley. She has taught me all I know about the world of DNA and I would be lost without her. She was inspiring on this tour and I loved seeing so many people come and say hi as well as, thank her for all she has done to assist and teach others. 

Louise Blaine Mel
Louise, Blaine and Mel

Thanks to all the old and new friends I made – I will be sure to forget someone if I try to list you all, but I look forward to seeing you online or catching you in person at the next DNA Down Under. I am off to get painting some chromosomes! 

Conferences, DNA

Day One DNA to the Max – Sydney

What a fantastic start to DNA to the Max – I started the morning meeting some of the Unlock the Past staff and then was able to greet some of the attendees with my new found friend – he didnt talk much. It was so nice to see the excitement of people coming through the door.

Greeting Attendees

We are so lucky to have one of the world’s experts Down Under – Blaine Bettinger – His ability to make complicated DNA information super simple with case studies and steps detailing how you can use his information is an art!

I always learn so much from his presentations and couldn’t wait to get back to my airbnb and get exploring the new tips.

I attended sessions about What Aussies think about DNA testing, The potential use of Genetic DNA for Law Enforcement and How to be a super sleuth with limited information from matches. 

You couldn’t wipe the smile from my face when I heard that Australians are leading the way with using DNA technology for Medical information – Watch this space for more information!

The other sensational part of my day was catching up with old friends and putting faces to friends that I have known online. The networking and friendships that are made at these events are great. It makes me so happy that people are weird like me and love DNA and family trees as much as I do!

Excited for tomorrow but first im off to test out some of the things ive learnt.

DNA, Interviews with Experts

Interview with Louise Coakley – DNA Downunder Speaker

Louise Coakley and Melanie Dunstan

I had the wonderful opportunity to interview Louise Coakley – One of the speakers from the upcoming DNA Down Under Tour. 

Louise is a great teacher and spends hours of her time in helping others with their DNA Research or challenges.

She is an Administrator for many DNA related facebook groups and her website www.genie1.com.au is an awesome Australian based DNA Genetic Genealogical website. 

I hope that you enjoy getting to know Louise and she inspires you to come along to the DNA Down Under Tour. 

When did you become interested in Family History?

I started researching family history more than 20 years ago when my young daughters came home from primary school with homework to draw a small family tree back to their grandparents. That exercise raised a few interesting questions, so I continued exploring and learning and have never stopped!  I started DNA testing in 2011 after responding to an offer of a free Y-DNA test for my husband’s surname project on surname mailing list.  My husband was happy to oblige, so I dived into learning everything I could about genetic genealogy, tested myself at all the main companies, and tested many relatives who were interested… and as you know it is addictive, so I am still going, and still learning.  It is such a fast-changing and fast-growing field, that every day I wake up and wonder what will be new today!

What do you like most about genetic genealogy?

I love the investigative nature of genetic genealogy – exploring the DNA results, researching genealogical records, building speculative trees, finding clues and fitting the puzzle pieces together to help solve a research goal. It is amazing that a few mls of our saliva can help us reach back 200 years and connect with other descendants of our ancestors, and identify the unknown origins of our early settlers or convict ancestors, and give identity and provide comfort to people who’ve always wondered who they are and where they came from.  Being able to infer relationships between people and families by combining DNA with genealogical research is such a powerful tool.  

Can you provide one example of how DNA testing has expanded your family tree?

Yes, a simple example from my own family, but also a very common situation for Australians of Irish or British descent, is where you have an immigrant ancestor with a very common name, and you know little about their family that remained in the home country. One of my great great grandmothers was Elizabeth Kelly, born 1838 in Moynalvey, Meath, Ireland, to parents James Kelly & Margaret Martin.  Elizabeth Kelly married in 1859 in Meath, and immigrated with her husband and small children to Victoria in 1863.  They had many more children in Victoria over the next 20 years.  One of my relatives travelled to Ireland and researched the records, and could only find the names of three of Elizabeth’s siblings, but nothing more about them.  Then last year my father got a good DNA match (121cM) to a previously unknown 2ndcousin once removed who lives in Ireland.  He had a small tree, which I researched back one more generation and confirmed his ancestor John Kelly as a brother to my Elizabeth Kelly (same parents, same parish).  The Shared Matches revealed some more Kelly descendant matches on the same line, and some further ones to explore!

What satisfactions are there to be had with genetic genealogy?

As well as adding many new branches to my own family tree and enjoying connecting and collaborating with new-found cousins, I also get a lot of satisfaction from educating and helping others.  I’ve assisted many people find previously unknown biological families and have successful connections.  It is even better when you discover that the biological family knew about them and had been searching for that person for a very long time without success.  And it is always a relief in cases where the individuals had no idea each other existed, but do find confirming evidence afterwards – such as a family letter, a named photograph or other non-DNA evidence confirming the DNA result.  I enjoy guiding and mentoring people with their own searches, to let them get the satisfaction and learn along the way.  Many people learn and solve their own mysteries under guidance, and often go on to help others do the same afterwards.

What should beginners know about genetic genealogy before they test? 

Mostly that they might become addicted to genetic genealogy and find that there are not enough hours in the day to do everything they want to, and that they might regularly get absorbed in it all and stay up far too late at night!  If DNA testers have never learned to research their family history before, that is something that they will need to do, as genealogical research is necessary to make sense of your DNA results and build your family tree. One other warning is that no-one knows before testing what their DNA will reveal.  Most testers find their DNA match results support their previous genealogical research, but others may be surprised or shocked to find their matches don’t reflect their known family, or that they have additional family members they weren’t expecting.  It is always a relief when opening results for the first time and immediately seeing that they fit the tester’s known family.  Also be aware that some cases have very few or very distant matches and can linger for several years without much progress in the way of useable matches, and yet other cases can be solved within a couple of hours of the results being made available.

The DNA Dowunder roadshow is coming to Australia in August.  What are you most looking forward to about the tour?

I am looking forward to meeting everyone: I will get to meet Blaine Bettinger for the first time, and also catch up with other Australian and New Zealand speakers. Some attendees may have met me already in person, many may know me from my online presence, or know my website or be members of my Facebook group Using DNA for Genealogy – Australia & NZ. I may be lucky enough to meet some cousins too – so if you are related to me or if you see my name or any of my DNA kits in your results, please introduce yourself!  And of course I look forward to presenting and sharing my knowledge with attendees.  I will be in Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne and the 3-day mega event in Sydney, so if you will be there, please come and say hello!

 

Conferences, DNA

DNA Down Under Ambassador

DNA Down Under Ambassador

I am proud to be an Ambassador for the DNA Down Under Tour coming to Australia in August 2019. 

Conference Locations

The Conference has both one day events in Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne and Canberra; and a Three Day event in Sydney. 

Speakers

The speakers are the best in the DNA business. Blaine Bettinger (https://thegeneticgenealogist.com) coming from the US. Experts from Australia and New Zealand, including Louise Coakley (www.genie1.com.au) and Helen Smith (dragongenealogy.com). 

In February I heard Blaine speak at Rootstech in Salt Lake City. Blaine has a beautiful way of teaching Genetic DNA which makes it simple and practical to understand. He is up to date with the every changing DNA testing methods. The use of simple language, stories and examples to teach to others is inspiring. 

You may have read some of his books when starting out with working with DNA for Family History research. It is fantastic that we are able to hear him speak down under!

Conference Program

I have seen the event programs for each of the cities and we are in for a real treat. There is content for all no matter your level of understanding of the DNA world. There is no repeated content at the three day event. You have the opportunity to attend both a one day event and the three day event. 

A huge bonus for this conference is the price. The registration fee includes a light lunch, morning and afternoon tea. This allows you to connect with the speakers as well as other attendee’s. I think the cost is great too and the skills you will learn will be well worth the ticket cost.

Counting the sleeps

I am counting the sleeps and can’t wait to be involved and would love for you to join me. Tickets and further information is available from www.dnadownunder.com 

Hope to see you there. 

Adoption, DNA, Great stories

My First DNA adoption case

My First DNA adoption case

Search for Birth Father

I met unnamed female in November 2016. A fellow genealogist suggested this might be a good case for me to get started with.

She knew her birth mother but was desperately seeking connection to her birth father

Initially her ancestry test revealed 68 4th cousin matches or closer and slowly over time this number grew. We would excitedly email each other when new closer matches arrived. Each new match was matched to other matches and if we could we added the person to our online speculative tree and we worked out how the new match fit into the family.

Initially progress was slow and there was weeks with no new matches until we had a match appear that was in the 2nd Cousin range – Who was this mystery match? We had great excitement that there was no shared matches to her mothers side of the tree. For weeks we internet searched and stalked profiles on Facebook to piece together whom this match may be. We were able to start a speculative family tree for this match and slowly work backwards to see if there were links to the maternal lines – but nothing. We sent emails and messages and spoke to living family members trying to piece the puzzle together. There were many twists and turns and paths leading to dead ends, but we persisted.

We initally headed down the maternal side of the new matches tree but we couldnt get this information to gel with the trees of the other shared matches. So we moved onto the Paternal side. We built lots of lots of trees and finally found links back to similar towns in NSW. Was this what we were looking for???

Some matches clicked in, and others didn’t, we found some more matches that didn’t know their past family either, this added to the mystery and drove us on! (Still working on one of these mysteries – it involves an adoption following a shipwreck of the Cairns Coast, but that’s another story)

Now we are sitting at 292 4th cousins or closer according to Ancestry DNA, and we are close to finding her birth father, but again we are at a Brick Wall of a deceased brother whom we know nothing about, and the relatives seem to know nothing either. Its two steps forward and five steps back but each week we hope for new DNA matches to add to the story.

If you want to read her side of the story – I’m proud to share her blog with you – The Rollercoaster Ride Called Adoption : From the eyes of an adoptee

I hope that I am able to update this blog post in the future with more news.